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LGBTQ+ affirming

LGBTQ+ affirming therapy that honors all of who you are

Therapy where your identity is welcomed, not questioned, and where you can explore what matters to you, from relationships to self-trust.

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Where to begin

You deserve care that sees you

LGBTQ+ people are resilient, and many also carry the weight of stigma, family rejection, or unsafe spaces. That can show up as anxiety, low mood, shame, or feeling like you have to stay on guard, even with people you love.

Your identity is not the problem to be solved. You set the agenda for what we explore.

Understanding it

What people bring to affirming therapy

People come to affirming therapy for identity exploration, coming out, relationships, family dynamics, gender questions, minority stress, and the effects of discrimination. Many also come for everyday concerns like anxiety or grief, with a therapist who already understands their context.

Our team is diverse and trained in affirming care. You can request a clinician who shares aspects of your identity.

Our approach

How we work

We create safety first, follow your lead, and attend to how identity and experience live in the body.

  1. Step 1

    Orientation

    Getting to know you, your identities, and your goals.

  2. Step 2

    Stabilizing

    Building grounding skills and support for stressful environments.

  3. Step 3

    Processing

    Exploring experiences of shame, rejection, or harm at your pace.

  4. Step 4

    Integration

    Living with more authenticity, connection, and self-trust.

Modalities

Approaches we use

Somatic therapy

Softening the vigilance and tension that can come from years of staying on guard.

EMDR

Processing experiences of discrimination, rejection, or harm that still feel close.

Couples therapy

Support for queer and trans couples and every relationship structure.

What support looks like

What you can expect from us

  • Affirming by default

    Your name, pronouns, and identity are respected from the first call.

  • Informed care

    Your therapist brings an understanding of LGBTQ+ lives and experiences to the work.

  • Clinician choice

    You can ask to work with someone who shares parts of your identity.

  • Sex-positive care

    Intimacy and sexuality can be discussed openly and without judgment.

Questions people ask

Questions about LGBTQ+ affirming therapy

Do I have to talk about my identity?
No. You decide what we focus on. Some people come to explore identity; others come for anxiety or grief and want an affirming therapist.
Can I request an LGBTQ+ therapist?
Yes. Let our Client Care Team know during your consultation, and they will do their best to match you.
Do you work with couples and relationships?
Yes. We work with queer, trans, polyamorous, and non-monogamous relationships.

Begin

We're here when you're ready.

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Union Square · Pleasantville · Online in NY, NJ & CT